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		<title>By: RG</title>
		<link>http://ronisweigh.com/2010/03/is-it-ok-to-be-fat.html/comment-page-1#comment-28621</link>
		<dc:creator>RG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 08:41:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very interesting.  a lot of people have talked about meme roth before, but I was surprisingly impressed.  Crystal Renn seemed clueless about the difference between being fat by most people&#039;s standards and the standards of the fashion industry.  I loved Kim&#039;s balanced viewpoint.  The 95% number irritates me as a damn statistic, saying that dieting doesn&#039;t &quot;work&quot; is about as useful as saying &quot;unemployment assistance doesn&#039;t work&quot; because 95%  of the people lose their job again.  The goal of dieting is to lose body fat, period.  The goal of healthy eating is to learn maintenance, managing your emotions and food choices and habits.  These are two separate processes, and I find both are necessary.  I have to have good habits 90% of the time, and I have to know how to self-correct when I wake up 10-15 pounds heavier than I should be because I&#039;ve been depressed, my habits got worse, I was traveling, I went through a life crisis, etc.

Finally, I thought the biggest point was that even JuJu is at 37% bodyfat, which is overweight.  It&#039;s taken a few years, but I think I&#039;m a lot better at judging that % for myself, using calipers and tape measures and even visual inspection.  An unhealthy focus on &quot;the number on the scale&quot; does lead to muscle loss since muscle is easier to lose than fat.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very interesting.  a lot of people have talked about meme roth before, but I was surprisingly impressed.  Crystal Renn seemed clueless about the difference between being fat by most people&#8217;s standards and the standards of the fashion industry.  I loved Kim&#8217;s balanced viewpoint.  The 95% number irritates me as a damn statistic, saying that dieting doesn&#8217;t &#8220;work&#8221; is about as useful as saying &#8220;unemployment assistance doesn&#8217;t work&#8221; because 95%  of the people lose their job again.  The goal of dieting is to lose body fat, period.  The goal of healthy eating is to learn maintenance, managing your emotions and food choices and habits.  These are two separate processes, and I find both are necessary.  I have to have good habits 90% of the time, and I have to know how to self-correct when I wake up 10-15 pounds heavier than I should be because I&#8217;ve been depressed, my habits got worse, I was traveling, I went through a life crisis, etc.</p>
<p>Finally, I thought the biggest point was that even JuJu is at 37% bodyfat, which is overweight.  It&#8217;s taken a few years, but I think I&#8217;m a lot better at judging that % for myself, using calipers and tape measures and even visual inspection.  An unhealthy focus on &#8220;the number on the scale&#8221; does lead to muscle loss since muscle is easier to lose than fat.</p>
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		<title>By: Penny</title>
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		<dc:creator>Penny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 06:25:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a lot of thoughts after watching the video. 
But the foremost thought on my mind is that Meme Roth is a complete heifer and I dislike her immensely.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a lot of thoughts after watching the video.<br />
But the foremost thought on my mind is that Meme Roth is a complete heifer and I dislike her immensely.</p>
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		<title>By: K</title>
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		<dc:creator>K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 08:28:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It seems to me that health should be emphasized more than dress size and appearance.  I found some of the comments from the lady who was advocating fighting against obesity to be rather well....&quot;harsh, and hurtful&quot;.  Although I agree that weight gain can contribute to the associated health risks of many diseases.  First and foremost people are still people!!  And I don&#039;t think that people who have never struggled with weight problems can really understand all the psychological effects that contribute to being labeled as the &quot;fat&quot; person.  And I totally agree with Katherine in that making legislation to stigmatize &quot;fatness&quot; or policing food choices is just the wrong approach to promoting healthy habits.  And to be really honest I find it down right unconstitutional.  

So although I have said what I have said.  I do think that health awareness should be encouraged.  But to ALL people instead of just pigeon-holing people who are overweight.  Health awareness should be about feeling healthy and having healthy levels of cholesterol etc, not dress size.  It seemed that the woman who was for fighting against obesity didn&#039;t have any concerns about people who appeared thin and &quot;healthy&quot;.  But in reality have high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and other health related problems.  I also have to say that the woman who proported that it was okay to be overweight seemed to struggle with admitting that there are associated health risks with being overweight.  And I don&#039;t think that is very beneficial either.  Anyway, thanks for sharing it was interesting to see all the different points of view.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It seems to me that health should be emphasized more than dress size and appearance.  I found some of the comments from the lady who was advocating fighting against obesity to be rather well&#8230;.&#8221;harsh, and hurtful&#8221;.  Although I agree that weight gain can contribute to the associated health risks of many diseases.  First and foremost people are still people!!  And I don&#8217;t think that people who have never struggled with weight problems can really understand all the psychological effects that contribute to being labeled as the &#8220;fat&#8221; person.  And I totally agree with Katherine in that making legislation to stigmatize &#8220;fatness&#8221; or policing food choices is just the wrong approach to promoting healthy habits.  And to be really honest I find it down right unconstitutional.  </p>
<p>So although I have said what I have said.  I do think that health awareness should be encouraged.  But to ALL people instead of just pigeon-holing people who are overweight.  Health awareness should be about feeling healthy and having healthy levels of cholesterol etc, not dress size.  It seemed that the woman who was for fighting against obesity didn&#8217;t have any concerns about people who appeared thin and &#8220;healthy&#8221;.  But in reality have high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and other health related problems.  I also have to say that the woman who proported that it was okay to be overweight seemed to struggle with admitting that there are associated health risks with being overweight.  And I don&#8217;t think that is very beneficial either.  Anyway, thanks for sharing it was interesting to see all the different points of view.</p>
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		<title>By: Jen (aka KUrunner)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jen (aka KUrunner)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 02:40:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You can be fat and fit; you can be thin and unfit.  You can be fat and unfit; you can be thin and fit.  Maybe we should be focusing on something other than a number on the scale.

That being said, I hate Meme Roth.  She gave an interview last year about how she maintains her weight by eating healthy and working out.  After a little bit of prodding, she then admitted that she doesn&#039;t eat anything until she works out, even if she can&#039;t get to the gym until bedtime.  Doesn&#039;t sound all that healthy to me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You can be fat and fit; you can be thin and unfit.  You can be fat and unfit; you can be thin and fit.  Maybe we should be focusing on something other than a number on the scale.</p>
<p>That being said, I hate Meme Roth.  She gave an interview last year about how she maintains her weight by eating healthy and working out.  After a little bit of prodding, she then admitted that she doesn&#8217;t eat anything until she works out, even if she can&#8217;t get to the gym until bedtime.  Doesn&#8217;t sound all that healthy to me.</p>
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		<title>By: Mehgann</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mehgann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 00:22:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well said, Alison.</description>
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		<title>By: Alison</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 23:10:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think that modern medicine and science unequivocally proves that obesity puts a body to many many health risks - predisposing the body to a long list of diseases which can affect lifespan and quality of life.

I did not like how Meme took her position.  I agree that the two women (who were less forceful in their approach) sitting next to the interviewer made the most sense.  The two women closest to the audience had too much emotional attachment to their opinions, crippling them from seeing the situation sensibly.

Meme particularly bugged me the way she self-righteously stated that while her family members were obese, she worked hard to eat only 1300-1800 calories at 5&#039;6 she only weighed 120lb.  

Here is a quote that I&#039;d like to throw out there.  It comes from a book I just picked up from the library today.  &quot;fit from within&quot; by Victoria Moran.  Chapter1 (accepting yourself for what you are and not what you weigh)

&quot;Every age and culture has had its physical ideal, but only in recent history has that ideal been foisted on us hundreds of times a day through magazines, movies, and TV.  The implication that even normal weight isn&#039;t thin enough makes it hard for a lot of people, women in particular, to value themselves.  If you are over weight, it&#039;s even harder.  The suggestion, subliminal or stated, that we should all have a supermodel&#039;s body is as preposterous as suggesting that we should all have Albert Einstein&#039;s IQ.  If mathematical theorems were valued as highly in the mass culture as fashion spreads and celebrity profiles, we&#039;d be lamenting the paucity of our intellects instead of the flabbiness of our thighs.

Get clear on this: being fat is not disgusting.  Child abuse is disgusting.  Tying up a dog outside all day and night in every kind of weather is disgusting.  Homelessness and stravation and weapons of mass destruction are disgusting.  Overweight is a state.  A situation.  An inconvenience certainly.  A threat to health in many cases.  A sign, perhaps of self-indulgence or indifference or emotional distress.  But not disgusting.&quot;

I think there are two very distincts sides of the obese discussion.  How one looks to others (and feels about themselves) from a cosmetic standpoint.  And then secondly, how one&#039;s weight (and eating habits) affect the health of their body and also the efficiency that the body runs.

I am disgusted by Meme&#039;s line of thinking that &quot;fat&quot; people are cramping her style and they should all start working on self control and exercise.  It&#039;s way more complicated than that as we all know!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that modern medicine and science unequivocally proves that obesity puts a body to many many health risks &#8211; predisposing the body to a long list of diseases which can affect lifespan and quality of life.</p>
<p>I did not like how Meme took her position.  I agree that the two women (who were less forceful in their approach) sitting next to the interviewer made the most sense.  The two women closest to the audience had too much emotional attachment to their opinions, crippling them from seeing the situation sensibly.</p>
<p>Meme particularly bugged me the way she self-righteously stated that while her family members were obese, she worked hard to eat only 1300-1800 calories at 5&#8217;6 she only weighed 120lb.  </p>
<p>Here is a quote that I&#8217;d like to throw out there.  It comes from a book I just picked up from the library today.  &#8220;fit from within&#8221; by Victoria Moran.  Chapter1 (accepting yourself for what you are and not what you weigh)</p>
<p>&#8220;Every age and culture has had its physical ideal, but only in recent history has that ideal been foisted on us hundreds of times a day through magazines, movies, and TV.  The implication that even normal weight isn&#8217;t thin enough makes it hard for a lot of people, women in particular, to value themselves.  If you are over weight, it&#8217;s even harder.  The suggestion, subliminal or stated, that we should all have a supermodel&#8217;s body is as preposterous as suggesting that we should all have Albert Einstein&#8217;s IQ.  If mathematical theorems were valued as highly in the mass culture as fashion spreads and celebrity profiles, we&#8217;d be lamenting the paucity of our intellects instead of the flabbiness of our thighs.</p>
<p>Get clear on this: being fat is not disgusting.  Child abuse is disgusting.  Tying up a dog outside all day and night in every kind of weather is disgusting.  Homelessness and stravation and weapons of mass destruction are disgusting.  Overweight is a state.  A situation.  An inconvenience certainly.  A threat to health in many cases.  A sign, perhaps of self-indulgence or indifference or emotional distress.  But not disgusting.&#8221;</p>
<p>I think there are two very distincts sides of the obese discussion.  How one looks to others (and feels about themselves) from a cosmetic standpoint.  And then secondly, how one&#8217;s weight (and eating habits) affect the health of their body and also the efficiency that the body runs.</p>
<p>I am disgusted by Meme&#8217;s line of thinking that &#8220;fat&#8221; people are cramping her style and they should all start working on self control and exercise.  It&#8217;s way more complicated than that as we all know!</p>
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		<title>By: David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 16:36:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fat abuses the body. It is unhealthy. Fat people cannot physically perform in life the way fit people can. And of course, the social ideal is solidly against being fat, try to deny it all they want. Sorry Mr Rogers Neighborhood fans.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fat abuses the body. It is unhealthy. Fat people cannot physically perform in life the way fit people can. And of course, the social ideal is solidly against being fat, try to deny it all they want. Sorry Mr Rogers Neighborhood fans.</p>
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		<title>By: Nicole</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 06:14:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the one thing in the video that stood out to me was when the audience was asked who likes to be called fat- and people raised there hands!!!  Who in their right mind likes to be called names?!? It&#039;s insanity!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the one thing in the video that stood out to me was when the audience was asked who likes to be called fat- and people raised there hands!!!  Who in their right mind likes to be called names?!? It&#8217;s insanity!</p>
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		<title>By: Jamie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jamie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 02:58:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I saw a few comments saying Meme was a clear and outright bigot.  I&#039;m not sure that is the case.  Sounds like she grew up watching her once healthy father get obese and then every health difficulty that followed b/c of that.  Same with her mother.  They showed a picture of her grandmother who is clearly morbidly obese, if she&#039;s still alive I&#039;m sure she watched (or is watching) her deteriorate and succumb to all that comes with that.  I&#039;m in healthcare myself...on the Med-surg floor....I can tell you about 3/4 of the people that come through that hospital, on that floor, have illnesses and complications due to their weight.  It&#039;s terrible to see...the diseases are ugly and ravaging.  Its frustrating.....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I saw a few comments saying Meme was a clear and outright bigot.  I&#8217;m not sure that is the case.  Sounds like she grew up watching her once healthy father get obese and then every health difficulty that followed b/c of that.  Same with her mother.  They showed a picture of her grandmother who is clearly morbidly obese, if she&#8217;s still alive I&#8217;m sure she watched (or is watching) her deteriorate and succumb to all that comes with that.  I&#8217;m in healthcare myself&#8230;on the Med-surg floor&#8230;.I can tell you about 3/4 of the people that come through that hospital, on that floor, have illnesses and complications due to their weight.  It&#8217;s terrible to see&#8230;the diseases are ugly and ravaging.  Its frustrating&#8230;..</p>
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		<title>By: rollercoaster</title>
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		<dc:creator>rollercoaster</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 01:15:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And one last thing, why is it always that people who are overweight just lack discipline?!?!??!  OMG some people diet over and over and over again getting bigger and bigger becuase of the emotional side of eating!

If it were just about trying hard, all those people out there that have been dieting for 10 years should be toothpicks BUT THEY AREN&#039;T!  They are struggling with a frustrating and difficult issue and looking to the wrong solution because the diet industry points them in the wrong direction!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And one last thing, why is it always that people who are overweight just lack discipline?!?!??!  OMG some people diet over and over and over again getting bigger and bigger becuase of the emotional side of eating!</p>
<p>If it were just about trying hard, all those people out there that have been dieting for 10 years should be toothpicks BUT THEY AREN&#8217;T!  They are struggling with a frustrating and difficult issue and looking to the wrong solution because the diet industry points them in the wrong direction!</p>
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